// August 5th, 2005 // No Comments » // Security & Privacy
Today I read an article on Bruce Schneier’s blog about the increasing trend of parents using technology to help keep track of their kids activities/movements/behaviors.
Sure, as a sociologist (I knew that degree would come in handy…), I think this is disturbing in a sense. But as a parent, I can certainly sympathize with the need to do anything you can to be sure your kids are safe.
I’ve often lamented the paranioa so many parents express through the “stranger danger” mantra, often digressing into diatribes that start something like: “When I was five-years-old I rode my bike 5 miles into town, across a freeway,…in the snow….uphill both ways….and WITHOUT A HELMENT!!” No sooner am I finished than I realize I can’t imagine giving my kids that same freedom at that age.
It’s something my wife and I will probably wrestle with until after they’re grown and have their own families. I was a good kid, but even I almost died any number of times during my “typical” male, mostly suburban adolescence.
Like anything, moderation is necessary when using technology to “track” your kids, and should never be a substitute for knowing your neighbors and building strong bonds between yourself, your kids, and your community. That said, reasonable use of the technology available (i.e. cell phones) can provide peace of mind our parents’ generation never knew.
I believe there’s a happy medium to be had between making our kids satellite-tracked, paraniod cave-dwellers and absent-minded victims-in-wating. Extremism on either side won’t achieve the best results. Kids need to understand that the world is full of mostly good, but some bad people – and how to deal with them. Parents need to take reasonable steps to be sure their kids know how to handle themselves in different situations, and then let them have room to explore and grow and understand their world.
It’s up to each of us to nurture our kids and our communities so that they’re places we can feel comfortable giving our kids that freedom.
For more information:
Salon.com Article
Bruce Schneier’s Blog